National Mushroom Day!

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I love mushrooms and I love holidays, so obviously Iโ€™m more than happy to celebrate National Mushroom Day! While its origins are hazy, credit for starting the yearly celebration on October 15th goes to Australia.

Ancient cultures used mushrooms for medicinal, spiritual, and recreational purposes, and they have always been on the periphery of the drug culture because of the hallucinogenic effects of their active ingredient, psilocybin. However, in modern times, research is revealing that ingesting small doses of psilocybin can have positive effects on mental health issues like depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and addiction.

Hm, yeah… okay. But how about just cooking with them because they’re tasty? Works for me! Grilled, fried, sauteed, as a topping, or incorporated into burgers/loaves, Iโ€™ve never met a mushroom I didnโ€™t likeโ€ฆ or wouldnโ€™t eat!

Growing up in the 70s and 80s, mushrooms were considered a pizza topping for weirdoes and something only vegetarians (then still a tiny portion of the population) purchased from the supermarket. However, my dad maintained a family garden for most of my childhood that sometimes included mushrooms. Yet, even then, mushrooms were used in soups and to make vegetable stocks for cooking.

Mushrooms came into their own, however, when steakhouses like Ponderosa and Sizzler served up mushrooms in a buttery sauce over steaks, and fast food businesses pushed mushroom and Swiss burgers to the top of their menus.

And I couldnโ€™t have been happier.

I married a man who enjoyed mushroomsโ€ฆ or not. It didnโ€™t matter to him. I could add mushrooms with wild abandon to pastas and casseroles and heโ€™d eat them. Life was good.

Then they arrived. The children. The mushroom haters.

To be fair, onions, bell peppers, tomatoes, and mushrooms are foods most children grow to enjoy as they mature. As did my three. Almost.

To this day, my now forty-year-old son still believes tomatoes in any form (except tomato sauce) are evil tools of the Dark Side. He and his younger sibs also believe no one should ever willingly eat โ€œfungus,โ€ and my daughter insists thereโ€™s a direct correlation between mushrooms and bad credit!

See what I had to deal with.

Making a bad situation worse, my eat-anything husband side-eyed dishes I prepared with mushrooms. Of course, this garnered him nothing but praise and accolades from our children. Bad Mom was torturing her family with fungus!

While I contemplated running away from home, I decided it was easier to prepare meals sans mushrooms and make them a side item for myself.

The sacrifices we make for our families!

Living alone now, I admit to perhaps an overindulgence in mushrooms, but refuse to admit how many packages are currently in my fridge.

My children are still not fungus fans. When discussing meals I plan to prepare, one of them will always respond with, โ€œYouโ€™re going to ruin it with mushrooms, arenโ€™t you?โ€

And yes, I am!

I’ve shared some of my favorite mushroom recipes from my Mushroom Mania board on Pinterest below, but my go-to mushroom meal is six to eight ounces of ANY type mushrooms sauteed in butter with minced garlic and three to five ounces of red wine until the liquid reduces by half. I pile them on lightly toasted sourdough bread with some smoked Gouda cheese, salt and pepper t taste and WOO HOO! It’s a party!

Enjoy National Mushroom Day by indulging in your favorite fungus!

From Pinch of Yum.com

Date Night Mushroom Fettuccine

Date Night Mushroom Fettuccine from pinchofyum.com

 

Creamy Garlic Herb Mushroom Spaghetti

Creamy Garlic Herb Mushroom Spaghetti from pinchofyum.com

 

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The Perfect Fried Mushrooms

The Perfect Fried Mushrooms from alphafoodie.com

 

 

Original mushroom photo courtesy of Andreas from Pixabay
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Happy Heavenly Birthday!

Where would I be without my children? They make everything better! โค

Remembering their dad today on his birthday with another cake themed on his favorite show, “Archer” made by our always amazing friend and cake-boss, Elyse Martinez. (The red cake is from 2017 and he loved it! The flowers are from my sis, Melissa.)

Continue to rest in peace, babe. You are missed every day. โคโค


#SaturdayThoughts “Reflection”

Next week will be two months since I lost Den, and the last ten days have been the worst since the day my life changed forever.

Insomnia, memory lapses, indecision, and the mother of all Fibromyalgia flare-ups only serve to exacerbate my grief and leave me unable to move forward… or at all.

There are bright spots when my sons pop up giving me a reason to laugh… and cook, or my daughter calls from the midwest and I remember how blessed I am to be a mom.

But they have lives and their own grief to work through, and as much as I love having them home, I don’t need or want a babysitter.

Not that they haven’t tried, bless their hearts. Their love and support mean everything, but this part of the journey–transitioning from wife to widow–I have to do alone.

So far, I suck at it. Den would not be pleased. He said I was the most stubborn woman on the planet and I bull-dozed obstacles out of my way. Actually, he called me cantankerous.

Who uses that word in the 21st Century?

My late husband, Lord of the Geeks.

So, I must do better.

I have to stop fighting the grief. I must allow the pain to wash over and through me. It will never be washed away, but enough will be spent so the love we shared can fill me and lift me up and help me to move on.

Just as it did for the last thirty-five years.

~~~

Rose Kennedy

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#FlashbackFriday: Meet Margot Schultz

Office manager Margot Schultz is the closest thingย  closed-off attorney, Olivia Chandler, has to a friend. Margot doesn’t know all the details of her boss’ painful childhood, but she knows enough to understand Olivia’s quirky behavior and stunted emotions.

Margot returns in Family Matters.ย  Her loyalty to Olivia will be tested when another devastating loss leads Olivia to refuse help and push everyone away.

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Dynamic and vivacious Margot Schultz never met an obstacle she couldnโ€™t overcomeโ€ฆ or knock down. Executive assistant and office manager to child-advocate attorney, Olivia Chandler, Margot always seems to know the right amount of charm, wit, and panache to use when dealing with anyone from grumpy judges to cagey Department of Childrenโ€™s Service employees to Oliviaโ€™s peers โ€“ some of whom are less-than-ethical.

Early in her career, Margot worked for some of the less than-ethical-crowd. While they could be gods and magicians in the courtroom, pulling out wins from seemingly unwinnable cases, outside the courtroom was another matter. Margot could remember each and every personal errand sheโ€™d had to do, each gift sheโ€™d had to buy for multiple girlfriends and mistresses, and every lie sheโ€™d told to one of her bossesโ€™ wives.

When Margot heard through the courthouse grapevine that the executive secretary of a successful young, female child advocate attorney was retiring for health reasons and had no replacement, she grabbed her resume, took an extended lunch and went in search of Olivia Chandler. Despite her unusual approach, Margot and Olivia clicked immediately.

The two women have worked side by side for over ten years. Olivia admired Margotโ€™s work ethic. She encouraged Margot to continue her education when time allowed, and even paid for it, calling it a โ€˜sound investment.โ€™ Margot would eventually advance from executive legal secretary to executive assistant and office manager.

Margot knows Olivia has no family and was a foster care kid. She doesnโ€™t know the intimate details, but she does know Oliviaโ€™s adolescence was bad enough for Olivia to keep herself closed off to most people. Her boss seems to โ€˜liveโ€™ when focused and working on a case for their minor clients. The rest of the time, Olivia just seems to exist.

The divorced office manager is not one of those people who believe a woman needs a man in her life to be complete, but Bruce Bellamy has suddenly appeared in Oliviaโ€™s life, and Margot will do her part to keep him there.

Things are going to get interesting.

~~~

Margot Rose (Parker) Schultz

Age: Sheโ€™s not telling โ€“ but probably mid to late 40s

Born: New York, New York

Marital Status: Divorced โ€“ has adult twin sons who are both Marines

Is two classes away from a Bachelorโ€™s degree in Business Management

Loves to dance and can be found on a dance floor most Saturday nights

Collects souvenirs from the Roaring 20s โ€“ always says she would have made a great Flapper

Plays acoustic guitar, but rarely does as it reminds her of her musician ex-husband

Is somewhat estranged from her parents and siblings since she dropped out of college nearly 20 years ago to elope with her now ex-husband

~~~

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Rena Averest – In The Best Interest of the Child – Character Profile


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Olivia Chandlerโ€™s latest client is eleven-year-old Rena Averest.

Rena and her parents were involved in a weather-related, multi-car accident. Her mother was killed and her father was severely injured and comatose for several weeks and remains hospitalized indefinitely.

Rena suffered extensive injuries and was also hospitalized for several weeks. When she was well enough to be discharged, the hospital ran into major obstacles. Her motherโ€™s only living relative was an older brother who lived two thousand miles away. Suffering from chronic cystic fibrosis, he was unable to care for Rena and had in fact, even missed his sisterโ€™s funeral. Rena has grandparents, and two aunts on her fatherโ€™s side of the familyโ€ฆand they want absolutely nothing to do with her.

A benevolent judge, taking into account all that Rena is currently dealing with, allows her to be placed temporarily with Courtney and Marissa Bellamy, friends of her parents since college, and Renaโ€™s godparents. Not knowing how her fatherโ€™s medical situation will resolve itself, the judge feels Rena needs the stability and familiarity of the Bellamy home. The Department of Childrenโ€™s Services disagrees and take legal action to remove Rena from the Bellamy home and place her in foster care. The presiding judge spurred on by the irony of DCS wanting to remove Rena Averest from a non-relative home only to place her in a non-relative home, stays the case and appoints a child advocate attorney to research the case and protect Renaโ€™s interest.

And thatโ€™s exactly what Olivia intends to do.

Rena Irene Averest

Age: 11

DOB: May 6, 2003

Parents: Duncan and Irene (Deceased) Averest

Siblings: None

Favorite color: Yellow

Favorite music: Todrick Hall and all songs Disney-related

Favorite Book: The Story of My Life by Helen Keller

Pets: A turtle named Brutus

BFF: Margie Macy

Wants to be a surgical nurse when she grows up


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Margot Schultz – In The Best Interest of the Child – Character Profile

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Dynamic and vivacious Margot Schultz never met an obstacle she couldnโ€™t overcomeโ€ฆ or knock down. Executive assistant/office manager to Olivia Chandler, Margot always seems to know the right amount of charm, wit, and panache to use when dealing with anyone from grumpy judges to cagey Department of Childrenโ€™s Service employees to Oliviaโ€™s peers โ€“ some of whom are less-than-ethical.

Early in her career, Margot worked for some of the less than-ethical-crowd. While they could be gods and magicians in the courtroom, pulling out wins from seemingly unwinnable cases, outside the courtroom was another matter. Margot could remember each and every personal errand sheโ€™d had to do, each gift sheโ€™d had to buy for multiple girlfriends and mistresses, and every lie sheโ€™d told to one of her bossesโ€™ wives.

When Margot heard through the courthouse grapevine that the executive secretary of a successful young, female child advocate attorney was retiring for health reasons and had no replacement, she grabbed her resume, took an extended lunch and went in search of Olivia Chandler. Despite her unusual approach, Margot and Olivia clicked immediately.

The two women have worked side by side for ten years. Olivia admired Margotโ€™s work ethic. She encouraged Margot to continue her education when time allowed, and even paid for it, calling it a โ€˜sound investment.โ€™ Margot would eventually advance from executive legal secretary to executive assistant and office manager.

Margot knows Olivia has no family and was a foster care kid. She doesnโ€™t know the intimate details, but she does know Oliviaโ€™s adolescence was bad enough for Olivia to keep herself closed off to most people. Her boss seems to โ€˜liveโ€™ when focused and working on a case for their minor clients. The rest of the time, Olivia just seems to exist.

The divorced office manager is not one of those people who believe a woman needs a man in her life to be complete, but Bruce Bellamy has suddenly appeared in Oliviaโ€™s life, and Margot will do her part to keep him there.

Things are going to get interesting.

 

Margot Rose (Parker) Schultz

Age: Sheโ€™s not telling โ€“ but probably mid to late 40s

Born: New York, New York

Marital Status: Divorced โ€“ has adult twin sons who are both Marines

Is two classes away from a Bachelorโ€™s degree in Business Management

Loves to dance and can be found on a dance floor most Saturday nights

Collects souvenirs from the Roaring 20s โ€“ always says she would have made a great Flapper

Plays acoustic guitar, but rarely does as it reminds her of her musician ex-husband

Is somewhat estranged from her parents and siblings since she dropped out of college nearly 30 years ago to elope with her now ex-husband


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Martin ‘Marty’ Knight – In The Best Interest of the Child – Character Profile

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After their initial visit to the hospital where Rena has daily physical therapy, she and Olivia meet hospital volunteer, Martin โ€˜Martyโ€™ Knight as they leave. Marty is concerned about the sadness in Renaโ€™s eyes and tries to cheer her up as he helps her into the car. He is shocked to find out that Renaโ€™s injuries and the death of her mother were caused by the same weather-related, multi-vehicle accident that claimed the life of his best friend, Victor Roddy.

During Marty and Renaโ€™s conversation, Olivia finds herself staring at the man, convinced they have met before. She just cannot remember where. Marty also cast several glances in Oliviaโ€™s direction trying to figure out why she looks so familiar. His memory fails him.

As the story unfolds, Marty Knight will not only become a good friend and โ€˜grandfatherโ€™ to Rena, he will play a pivotal role in Olivia Chandler sorting out her pastโ€ฆand navigating her future.

  • Martin Eugene Knight
  • Age: 71
  • Retiree, Veteran, and Hospital Volunteer
  • DOB: October 31, 1943
  • Born in Kenosha, Wisconsin
  • Marital Status: Widower. Wife, Sarah, passed away three years ago after a difficult battle with liver cancer.
  • Sarah died two weeks after their 50th wedding anniversary.
  • Has five children and eleven grandchildren.
  • A veteran of the Vietnam War. Entered the war near its beginning and served four years.
  • Received a Purple Heart and Medal Honor.
  • Enjoys building miniatures, fly fishing, and watching westerns.
  • Carries a keychain with a picture of his wife on one side, and a picture of his dog on the other. His dog passed away two months after his wife, at the age of 16. Sarah named the dog Dwight because she was convinced he looked like Dwight D Eisenhower.

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Courtney and Marissa Bellamy – In The Best Interest of the Child – Character Profile

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As best friends to Duncan Averest and his late wife, Irene, Courtney and Marissa Bellamy knew they would stand by Duncan. Whatever it took to help him through the loss of his wife and the serious injuries sustained by him and daughter, Rena, the Bellamys would do. And, as Renaโ€™s godparents, of course she would live with them until her father was well enough to take care of her. They took their vows as godparents very seriously. But someone is trying to stop them. Someone is trying to keep them away from Duncan and make sure Rena gets sent into the foster care system.

Court-appointed child advocate attorney Olivia Chandler is the answer to their prayers. Theyโ€™re moved by her genuineness and promise to โ€œdo right by Rena.โ€ There is an immediate bond between the attorney and her young client, and Marissa cannot help but wonder if it has more to do with the flashes of sadness she sees in Oliviaโ€™s eyes than with simple job commitment.

The instant interest in Olivia by his cousin, Bruce, hasnโ€™t been lost on Courtney. Abandoned by his ex-wife when their children were mere toddlers, Bruce hasnโ€™t shown little more than a passing, casual interest in any woman since. Olivia will be spending quite a bit of time with the Bellamy family in the near future, and Courtney thinks itโ€™s just enough time to do a bit of matchmaking. And, where you find Courtneyโ€ฆyou find Marissa.

Let the games begin!

Courtney Ardan and Marissa Anne (Monroe) Bellamy

Met in Botany 101 during their freshman year of college

Married November 30, 1996

Two sons โ€“ Bishop, 18 and Brian, 16

Courtney works in IT/Computer Systems for the local school district, Marissa is head of Library Sciences for Hennepin County Public Libraries

Courtney (Caucasian) and Marissa (African-American) are an Interracial couple who havenโ€™t suffered much of the disdain shown to interracial couples by some of society due to their steadfast commitment to each other and the love and total support of their families.